Community guidelines
The forum is for women comparing notes on dating and relationships. These rules keep it usable.
1. Lead with kindness
Assume good intent. Disagree with the idea, not the person.
2. Protect privacy
Do not share names, handles, photos, or identifying details about yourself or an ex.
3. Stay on topic
Posts should be about relationships, dating, self-growth, or community support.
4. No harassment or hate
Misogyny, racism, homophobia, transphobia, ableism, and body-shaming are an instant ban.
5. Crisis content needs care
If someone is in danger, point them to support resources. Do not post graphic descriptions.
6. Report, don’t pile on
Use Report. A moderator reviews it. Hostility in the replies can get your own comment removed.