97 published pieces. Curated items name the outlet they summarize. Original explainers live in guides and topics.
Showing pieces by Dr. Eleanor Vance.
Modern Dating Culture
Is it a relationship, or just a really long hangout? 'Situationships' are on the rise, leaving many confused about where they stand. This article dives into defining these…
Summary of Psychology Today · 9 min read
Dating Trends
This Valentine's season, a subtle but pervasive fear is emerging: annihilation anxiety. This article explores the reluctance to be fully known by a partner, even when seeking deep…
Summary of Iheart · 11 min read
Red Flags & Boundaries
Emotional withholding, often expressed through the silent treatment, is a damaging form of manipulation. This February, learn to identify this tactic and set boundaries to protect…
Summary of BBC Worklife · 17 min read
Breakups & Healing
Breakups evoke genuine physical and emotional pain, akin to addiction withdrawal. This article delves into the scientific underpinnings of breakup pain and provides evidence-based…
Summary of NCBI/PubMed Central · 8 min read
Marriage & Long-Term
Despite being in committed relationships, many individuals experience profound loneliness. This article delves into the causes of this paradox and explores how couples can…
Summary of The Atlantic · 12 min read
Success Stories
This couple's seemingly opposite natures proved to be the perfect recipe for love. Their February success story highlights how complementary personalities can create a dynamic and…
Summary of Archive · 10 min read
Breakups & Healing
Even if your breakup wasn't recent, the holiday season can stir up old emotions and memories. This article provides strategies for managing these echoes and ensuring the holidays…
Summary of The New York Times · 6 min read
Modern Dating Culture
As the colder months set in, the lines between casual dating and commitment can blur. This article explores how to define and manage 'situationships' this December without…
Summary of Psychology Today · 11 min read
Attachment Theory
Can your attachment style predict the longevity of your love? This article explores the intricate link between attachment patterns and the success of long-term romantic…
Summary of Instagram · 19 min read
Success Stories
Sarah's journey highlights the power of intentional dating, moving beyond superficial connection to build a deeply fulfilling partnership. This story reveals how a shift in…
Summary of Psychology Today · 7 min read
Relationship Psychology
Your early experiences with caregivers significantly influence how you form and maintain romantic relationships. This article explores the four main attachment styles and how to…
Summary of Theatlantic · 12 min read
Communication Skills
Navigating the complexities of a partner's need for solitude can be challenging. This article explores the science behind introversion and communication, offering practical…
Summary of Psychologytoday · 14 min read
Single Life
The holidays can be a whirlwind of couple-centric events, but this year, embrace your single status as an opportunity for self-discovery and joy. Learn to create meaningful…
Summary of Psychologytoday · 8 min read
Modern Dating Culture
Are you happy in a situationship but want to move towards a committed partnership? This article offers practical advice on how to signal your intentions and foster growth.
Summary of Facebook · 12 min read
Breakups & Healing
As the leaves change and the weather turns colder, the emotional landscape of a breakup can feel even more isolating. This article explores how seasonal shifts can amplify…
Summary of Helpguide · 10 min read
Relationship Psychology
As the leaves turn, so do our relationship dynamics. This article explores how seasonal shifts can impact our attachment styles and how to foster secure connections as autumn…
Summary of Pmc · 11 min read
Attachment Theory
As the leaves change, so do our desires for connection. This article explores how understanding your attachment style can unlock more fulfilling autumn romances by identifying…
Summary of Columbiapsychiatry · 8 min read
Single Life
dispel the myth that happiness is solely dependent on romantic partnerships. Explore the scientific drivers of satisfaction within singlehood.
Summary of NCBI/PubMed · 17 min read
Relationship Psychology
The rise of casual connections has left many women questioning the status of their relationships. This article delves into the psychological underpinnings of these undefined…
Summary of Psychologytoday · 8 min read
Self-Growth
In the hustle of August, it's easy to get caught up in expectations. This article explores how to shed external pressures and cultivate a deeper connection with your true desires…
Summary of Psychologytoday · 13 min read
Communication Skills
Does your partner's 'it's fine' send shivers down your spine, hinting at unspoken issues? This article dives into the subtle art of deciphering passive communication and equips…
Summary of Psychologytoday · 7 min read
Self-Growth
Effective communication is the cornerstone of any thriving relationship, fostering understanding and deeper intimacy. This article unpacks the essential elements of communication…
Summary of Youtube · 8 min read
Modern Dating Culture
In June 2023, the dating landscape is defined by instant gratification and equally instant disappearances. This article delves into the emotional toll of ghosting, offering…
Summary of Facebook · 7 min read
Attachment Theory
This summer, understand the invisible strings that shape your romantic connections. Discover how your early experiences influence your adult relationships and dating patterns.
Summary of Psychologytoday · 9 min read