97 published pieces. Curated items name the outlet they summarize. Original explainers live in guides and topics.
Showing pieces by Dr. Eleanor Vance.
Attachment Theory
In the season of love, understanding your attachment style is key to building healthier relationships. This month, we explore how early experiences shape our adult romantic…
Summary of Psychology Today · 7 min read
Dating Apps & Technology
The dating app landscape has matured significantly. This piece examines how platforms are moving beyond simplistic swiping mechanics to prioritize deeper compatibility and shared…
Summary of The Guardian · 9 min read
Dating Trends
In an era marked by unpredictable events, a segment of singles in late 2021 were prioritizing partners who demonstrated traits of stability and future-oriented thinking. This…
Summary of Vogue · 13 min read
Attachment Theory
Attachment theory posits that our early bonding experiences significantly influence our adult relationships. This article explores how actively cultivating secure attachment can…
Summary of The Guardian · 14 min read
Single Life
The holiday season can amplify feelings of loneliness for single individuals. This article offers practical strategies to combat isolation and embrace the festive spirit…
Summary of Verywell Mind · 9 min read
Breakups & Healing
The festive season can amplify feelings of loneliness and sadness after a breakup. This article offers practical strategies to navigate the emotional challenges of the approaching…
Summary of Psychology Today · 12 min read
Red Flags & Boundaries
Understand how different attachment styles can manifest as red flags in dating. Learn to identify potential issues stemming from anxious, avoidant, or secure attachments.
Summary of Attachment Project · 8 min read
Single Life
When you have a strong sense of purpose, your life feels rich and meaningful, regardless of your relationship status. This article explores how to identify and cultivate your…
Summary of Attachment Project · 12 min read
Breakups & Healing
As the air chills and the holiday season looms, post-breakup loneliness can feel amplified. This article provides strategies to manage these feelings and find joy in your own…
Summary of Psychology Today · 15 min read
Dating Apps & Technology
As dating apps become more sophisticated, so does the behind-the-scenes algorithm. This article explores how these invisible forces shape our dating pool and what we can do to…
Summary of Bumble Blog · 10 min read
Attachment Theory
As the leaves turn, it's the perfect time to delve into the roots of your romantic patterns. Understanding your attachment style, a concept born from early childhood experiences…
Summary of The Attachment Project · 9 min read
Marriage & Long-Term
Conflict is inevitable in marriage, but how couples handle disagreements can determine the health of their relationship. This article explores strategies for constructive conflict…
Summary of The New York Times · 8 min read
Modern Dating Culture
As the world slowly reopens, dating's landscape has shifted. This article explores how to approach reconnecting with others after prolonged isolation and the new considerations…
Summary of Psychology Today · 12 min read
Communication Skills
In a world of constant digital distractions, truly listening can feel like a lost art. This article dives into the science and practice of active listening, empowering you to…
Summary of The Gottman Institute · 6 min read
Relationship Psychology
Beyond the initial spark, what are the deeper psychological and biological factors that drive romantic attraction and lead to lasting love? Explore the science behind falling and…
Summary of The Atlantic · 7 min read
Breakups & Healing
September often ushers in new beginnings, but for those experiencing a breakup, it can amplify feelings of loss. This article explores the stages of grief post-relationship and…
Summary of Psychology Today · 8 min read
Self-Growth
As summer fades and a new season approaches, September offers a unique window for personal reflection and goal setting. This article explores how to harness this transitional…
Summary of Psychology Today · 10 min read
Marriage & Long-Term
While passion is often highlighted, the quiet strength of friendship within marriage is vital for long-term happiness. This article explores the importance of companionate love…
Summary of The Atlantic · 14 min read
Communication Skills
In August 2021's dating landscape, truly hearing your partner can feel like a superpower. This article breaks down active listening techniques to help you connect on a profound…
Summary of Psychology Today · 8 min read
Self-Growth
Feeling like you've lost touch with the things that once brought you joy? This article explores practical strategies to reconnect with your passions and inject new excitement into…
Summary of Psychology Today · 7 min read
Marriage & Long-Term
In a world obsessed with fairytale romances, research suggests that striving for a 'perfect' marriage can be detrimental. This article explores the concept of the 'good enough'…
Summary of Psychology Today · 9 min read
Breakups & Healing
The immediate aftermath of a breakup can feel overwhelming, a rollercoaster of emotions from sadness to anger. This article delves into practical strategies for managing these…
Summary of Psychology Today · 16 min read
Attachment Theory
What does it truly mean to have a secure attachment style? This July, delve into the characteristics of secure attachment, why it's the gold standard for relationships, and how to…
Summary of Verywell Mind · 13 min read
Dating Apps & Technology
While dating apps are designed to find romantic partners, sometimes the best connections emerge unexpectedly. This article explores the phenomenon of forming meaningful…
Summary of Elle · 10 min read