93 published pieces. Curated items name the outlet they summarize. Original explainers live in guides and topics.
Showing pieces by Dr. John Gottman.
Modern Dating Culture
In a dating landscape that can often feel guarded, embracing vulnerability can be the key to unlocking more profound and meaningful relationships.
Summary of Jamespreece · 10 min read
Red Flags & Boundaries
Learn from the renowned Gottman Institute how to recognize chronic criticism as a relationship killer and implement strategies for healthier communication.
Summary of Gottman · 6 min read
Success Stories
Distance can be a formidable obstacle, but Maria and Ben's story proves that with dedication and trust, long-distance relationships can not only survive but thrive. They share…
Summary of Gottman · 8 min read
Communication Skills
Maintaining a strong connection when miles separate you can be challenging. This article explores practical strategies for couples in long-distance relationships to ensure their…
Summary of Gottman · 7 min read
Dating Apps & Technology
Renowned relationship experts at The Gottman Institute weigh in on how dating app usage impacts the foundational elements of healthy relationships, offering insights for June 2023…
Summary of Gottman · 8 min read
Breakups & Healing
Ending a relationship doesn't have to mean severing all connection with animosity. Learn how to practice compassionate detachment for a more peaceful transition.
Summary of Gottman · 7 min read
Attachment Theory
The initial spark of a date is just the beginning. This article explores how your underlying attachment style, formed in infancy, continues to play a crucial role in the evolution…
Summary of Gottman · 12 min read
Dating Apps & Technology
Dating apps are a tool, not a destination. Discover how to leverage technology strategically to move beyond superficial swipes and cultivate genuine emotional intimacy.
Summary of Gottman · 10 min read
Success Stories
This inspiring narrative highlights the transformative power of opening up and sharing one's authentic self in a relationship. Emily and David's journey shows that true intimacy…
Summary of Gottman · 20 min read
Dating Trends
As February 2023 unfolded, the concept of a 'relationship reset' gained prominence. This trend highlights a conscious effort from individuals to reassess and recalibrate their…
Summary of Gottman · 11 min read
Attachment Theory
What does it truly mean to have a secure attachment style? This piece delves into the characteristics of secure attachment and why it's the bedrock of healthy, enduring…
Summary of Gottman · 8 min read
Modern Dating Culture
In a world of instant gratification, the concept of a 'slow burn' romance might seem outdated. However, a deeper connection built over time offers unique benefits that could lead…
Summary of Gottman · 9 min read
Dating Apps & Technology
While dating apps offer convenience, fostering genuine connection requires more than just a few clicks. This article emphasizes the importance of intentionality, vulnerability…
Summary of Gottman · 8 min read
Self-Growth
True intimacy requires us to be open and honest about our true selves, even our flaws. This article explores how embracing vulnerability can transform your relationships and…
Summary of Facebook · 8 min read
Breakups & Healing
Forgiveness can be one of the most challenging but ultimately liberating aspects of breakup healing. This article explores the process of forgiving both your ex and yourself to…
Summary of The Gottman Institute · 7 min read
Attachment Theory
Even the strongest relationships face challenges. This entry explores how understanding attachment dynamics can be a powerful tool within couples therapy for healing past hurts…
Summary of The Gottman Institute · 13 min read
Marriage & Long-Term
Compromise isn't about 'losing'; it's about finding solutions that honor both partners' needs. This article from The Gottman Institute delves into how effective compromise fosters…
Summary of The Gottman Institute · 19 min read
Success Stories
When Emily's long-term relationship ended, she thought it was the final chapter. However, a year of personal growth and reflection led them back to each other, stronger and more…
Summary of The Gottman Institute · 15 min read
Red Flags & Boundaries
When your partner withdraws and refuses to speak, it can be incredibly frustrating and hurtful. This article delves into the silent treatment, distinguishing between a temporary…
Summary of The Gottman Institute · 15 min read
Relationship Psychology
Disagreements are inevitable, but how couples handle them can make or break their relationship. Learn effective strategies for navigating conflict in a way that fosters…
Summary of The Gottman Institute · 8 min read
Attachment Theory
This June, focus on building your 'secure base' – a concept from attachment theory essential for healthy relationships. Discover how to cultivate safety and trust, both within…
Summary of The Gottman Institute · 11 min read
Modern Dating Culture
In a post-pandemic world and with digital connections dominating, forging genuine shared experiences is key. We explore how couples and potential partners can build a strong…
Summary of The Gottman Institute · 7 min read
Success Stories
Mark and Emily's story is a testament to the power of proactive communication and problem-solving in a relationship. They dish on how they navigated early challenges to build a…
Summary of The Gottman Institute · 9 min read
Marriage & Long-Term
Compromise is often lauded as a cornerstone of successful long-term relationships, but it doesn't mean one partner always gives in. This piece unpacks the nuances of healthy…
Summary of The Gottman Institute · 7 min read