93 published pieces. Curated items name the outlet they summarize. Original explainers live in guides and topics.
Showing pieces by Dr. John Gottman.
Modern Dating Culture
Even in the early stages of dating, disagreements are inevitable. This article from the renowned Gottman Institute offers insights into how couples can navigate conflict…
Summary of The Gottman Institute · 17 min read
Modern Dating Culture
Renowned relationship experts John and Julie Gottman offer insights into how to cultivate strong, enduring relationships amidst the constant influx of digital distractions and the…
Summary of The Gottman Institute · 14 min read
Single Life
This article debunks the notion of the 'friend zone' and highlights the immense value of strong, platonic friendships, especially for those who are single and seeking connection…
Summary of The Gottman Institute · 8 min read
Dating Trends
After a challenging year, June 2021 saw a growing desire for more compassionate and empathetic interactions in dating. This article explores the impact of the 'kindness contagion'…
Summary of The Gottman Institute · 15 min read
Communication Skills
Are you truly hearing what your partner is saying, or just waiting for your turn to speak? Mastering active listening can transform your relationship dynamics.
Summary of The Gottman Institute · 14 min read
Relationship Psychology
Disagreements are inevitable in any relationship, but how you handle them can make or break your connection. This article offers practical strategies for navigating conflict…
Summary of The Gottman Institute · 7 min read
Attachment Theory
The Gottman Institute's 'Love Map' concept aligns with attachment theory, emphasizing the importance of knowing your partner deeply. Discover how understanding your attachment…
Summary of The Gottman Institute · 10 min read
Relationship Psychology
Beyond the initial passion, a deep and abiding companionate love is what sustains long-term relationships. This piece delves into the key elements that foster this enduring…
Summary of The Gottman Institute · 6 min read
Communication Skills
In a world of constant distractions, truly listening is a superpower. This article explores how to move beyond simply hearing words to understanding the unspoken emotions and…
Summary of The Gottman Institute · 9 min read
Success Stories
Liam and Chloe's journey illustrates how prioritizing emotional safety and open communication can lead to a secure and thriving relationship. Their success is a blueprint for…
Summary of The Gottman Institute · 14 min read
Relationship Psychology
Communication breakdowns are a common source of relationship strife. This article reveals the transformative power of active listening and practical techniques to implement it.
Summary of The Gottman Institute · 10 min read
Marriage & Long-Term
March 2021 brought continued shifts in daily life, making compromise more vital than ever for married couples. This piece delves into why compromise isn't about giving in, but…
Summary of The Gottman Institute · 10 min read
Breakups & Healing
In the immediate aftermath of a breakup, maintaining distance is crucial for emotional recovery. This article examines the effectiveness and implementation of the 'no contact…
Summary of The Gottman Institute · 10 min read
Attachment Theory
Explore the enduring impact of early attachment on adult relationships, especially relevant as we navigate the complexities of modern dating. This article delves into how our…
Summary of The Gottman Institute · 14 min read
Marriage & Long-Term
The past year has reshaped our lives, and potentially, our marriages. This article explores how to proactively realign expectations with your partner as you step into a…
Summary of The Gottman Institute · 6 min read
Self-Growth
In a world that often celebrates strength, February 2021 encourages us to explore the profound strength found in vulnerability. This article examines how opening up can lead to…
Summary of The Gottman Institute · 7 min read
Self-Growth
Conflict is inevitable in relationships, but how we handle it can make all the difference. This article from The Gottman Institute offers evidence-based strategies for navigating…
Summary of The Gottman Institute · 8 min read
Red Flags & Boundaries
In the age of accelerated online dating, recognizing manipulative tactics like 'love bombing' is crucial. This article delves into the subtle signs of overwhelming affection early…
Summary of The Gottman Institute · 14 min read
Breakups & Healing
Betrayal can shatter the foundations of a relationship and leave deep emotional scars. This article provides practical advice for individuals in early 2021 looking to heal from…
Summary of The Gottman Institute · 8 min read
Dating Trends
The beginning of 2021 marked a return to a more deliberate approach to dating. After a year of uncertainty, singles sought deeper connections, favoring quality interactions over a…
Summary of The Gottman Institute · 10 min read
Marriage & Long-Term
The early part of 2021 was a time of ongoing adaptation. For long-term couples, mastering the art of compromise is essential for navigating challenges and fostering a resilient…
Summary of The Gottman Institute · 7 min read