35 published pieces. Curated items name the outlet they summarize. Original explainers live in guides and topics.
Showing pieces by Dr. John Gottman & Dr. Julie Schwartz Gottman.
Relationship Psychology
February's focus on love and partnership can sometimes bring underlying tensions to the surface. This article offers a guide to navigating disagreements productively, transforming…
Summary of The Gottman Institute · 9 min read
Modern Dating Culture
In a world dominated by screens, how do we ensure our digital communication fosters genuine intimacy? This article explores the nuances of modern affection exchanged through texts…
Summary of The Gottman Institute · 9 min read
Breakups & Healing
The idea of remaining friends with an ex is often romanticized, but can it truly work? This article explores the complexities of post-breakup friendships, the potential pitfalls…
Summary of The Gottman Institute · 13 min read
Breakups & Healing
While the Gottman Institute is renowned for saving marriages, its principles also offer profound insights into self-healing after a breakup. This article adapts their core…
Summary of The Gottman Institute · 15 min read
Modern Dating Culture
In a dating landscape that can often feel guarded, embracing vulnerability can be the key to unlocking more profound and meaningful relationships.
Summary of Jamespreece · 10 min read
Communication Skills
Maintaining a strong connection when miles separate you can be challenging. This article explores practical strategies for couples in long-distance relationships to ensure their…
Summary of Gottman · 7 min read
Dating Apps & Technology
Renowned relationship experts at The Gottman Institute weigh in on how dating app usage impacts the foundational elements of healthy relationships, offering insights for June 2023…
Summary of Gottman · 8 min read
Modern Dating Culture
In a world of instant gratification, the concept of a 'slow burn' romance might seem outdated. However, a deeper connection built over time offers unique benefits that could lead…
Summary of Gottman · 9 min read
Dating Apps & Technology
While dating apps offer convenience, fostering genuine connection requires more than just a few clicks. This article emphasizes the importance of intentionality, vulnerability…
Summary of Gottman · 8 min read
Self-Growth
True intimacy requires us to be open and honest about our true selves, even our flaws. This article explores how embracing vulnerability can transform your relationships and…
Summary of Facebook · 8 min read
Marriage & Long-Term
Compromise isn't about 'losing'; it's about finding solutions that honor both partners' needs. This article from The Gottman Institute delves into how effective compromise fosters…
Summary of The Gottman Institute · 19 min read
Red Flags & Boundaries
When your partner withdraws and refuses to speak, it can be incredibly frustrating and hurtful. This article delves into the silent treatment, distinguishing between a temporary…
Summary of The Gottman Institute · 15 min read
Relationship Psychology
Disagreements are inevitable, but how couples handle them can make or break their relationship. Learn effective strategies for navigating conflict in a way that fosters…
Summary of The Gottman Institute · 8 min read
Attachment Theory
This June, focus on building your 'secure base' – a concept from attachment theory essential for healthy relationships. Discover how to cultivate safety and trust, both within…
Summary of The Gottman Institute · 11 min read
Marriage & Long-Term
Compromise is often lauded as a cornerstone of successful long-term relationships, but it doesn't mean one partner always gives in. This piece unpacks the nuances of healthy…
Summary of The Gottman Institute · 7 min read
Breakups & Healing
The 'no contact' rule can feel daunting, but for many, it's a vital step towards healing after a breakup. This article delves into the effectiveness and nuances of this strategy…
Summary of The Gottman Institute · 9 min read
Attachment Theory
Discover the power of secure attachment in fostering healthy, fulfilling relationships. This article explores the characteristics of secure attachment and how to cultivate it…
Summary of The Gottman Institute · 11 min read
Marriage & Long-Term
In the journey of marriage, the shift from 'me' to 'we' is fundamental. This article explores how cultivating a strong sense of teamwork can fortify a relationship against life's…
Summary of The Gottman Institute · 9 min read
Attachment Theory
If you find yourself struggling with emotional intimacy or feeling overwhelmed by your partner's need for closeness, you might exhibit an avoidant attachment style. This article…
Summary of The Gottman Institute · 7 min read
Communication Skills
As gatherings increase and demands on your time rise, learning to say 'no' gracefully is essential for relationship health. This article provides tools to assert your needs…
Summary of The Gottman Institute · 9 min read
Self-Growth
In November's introspective atmosphere, let's explore how to foster genuine human connection beyond superficial interactions, creating bonds that truly nourish the soul.
Summary of The Gottman Institute · 8 min read
Modern Dating Culture
Building a strong foundation for any relationship involves learning to navigate disagreements constructively. This article from The Gottman Institute provides essential advice for…
Summary of The Gottman Institute · 13 min read
Marriage & Long-Term
Life rarely follows a straight path. This article delves into how couples can leverage their shared history and communication skills to overcome unexpected challenges and emerge…
Summary of The Gottman Institute · 13 min read
Dating Apps & Technology
Can online dating lead to lasting love? This article explores the transition from app-based beginnings to developing a healthy and sustainable long-term relationship.
Summary of The Gottman Institute · 14 min read