131 published pieces. Curated items name the outlet they summarize. Original explainers live in guides and topics.
Showing pieces by Eleanor Vance.
Red Flags & Boundaries
Understand how different attachment styles can manifest as red flags in dating. Learn to identify potential issues stemming from anxious, avoidant, or secure attachments.
Summary of Attachment Project · 8 min read
Modern Dating Culture
In November 2021, the discourse surrounding 'Next Boyfriend' shifted to a more empowering narrative. This piece explores the evolving aspirations of women in relationships, moving…
Summary of Vogue · 11 min read
Single Life
When you have a strong sense of purpose, your life feels rich and meaningful, regardless of your relationship status. This article explores how to identify and cultivate your…
Summary of Attachment Project · 12 min read
Breakups & Healing
As the air chills and the holiday season looms, post-breakup loneliness can feel amplified. This article provides strategies to manage these feelings and find joy in your own…
Summary of Psychology Today · 15 min read
Dating Apps & Technology
As dating apps become more sophisticated, so does the behind-the-scenes algorithm. This article explores how these invisible forces shape our dating pool and what we can do to…
Summary of Bumble Blog · 10 min read
Attachment Theory
As the leaves turn, it's the perfect time to delve into the roots of your romantic patterns. Understanding your attachment style, a concept born from early childhood experiences…
Summary of The Attachment Project · 9 min read
Marriage & Long-Term
Conflict is inevitable in marriage, but how couples handle disagreements can determine the health of their relationship. This article explores strategies for constructive conflict…
Summary of The New York Times · 8 min read
Modern Dating Culture
As the world slowly reopens, dating's landscape has shifted. This article explores how to approach reconnecting with others after prolonged isolation and the new considerations…
Summary of Psychology Today · 12 min read
Communication Skills
In a world of constant digital distractions, truly listening can feel like a lost art. This article dives into the science and practice of active listening, empowering you to…
Summary of The Gottman Institute · 6 min read
Relationship Psychology
Beyond the initial spark, what are the deeper psychological and biological factors that drive romantic attraction and lead to lasting love? Explore the science behind falling and…
Summary of The Atlantic · 7 min read
Breakups & Healing
September often ushers in new beginnings, but for those experiencing a breakup, it can amplify feelings of loss. This article explores the stages of grief post-relationship and…
Summary of Psychology Today · 8 min read
Self-Growth
As summer fades and a new season approaches, September offers a unique window for personal reflection and goal setting. This article explores how to harness this transitional…
Summary of Psychology Today · 10 min read
Marriage & Long-Term
While passion is often highlighted, the quiet strength of friendship within marriage is vital for long-term happiness. This article explores the importance of companionate love…
Summary of The Atlantic · 14 min read
Modern Dating Culture
September 2021 saw a surge in discussions about 'deconstructing' relationships. This article explores if the pandemic accelerated a societal shift away from conventional courtship…
Summary of The Guardian · 13 min read
Success Stories
Navigating romance later in life can feel daunting, but Mark and Emily's story proves that meaningful connections are possible at any age. They met through a shared hobby and…
Summary of The Guardian · 7 min read
Communication Skills
In August 2021's dating landscape, truly hearing your partner can feel like a superpower. This article breaks down active listening techniques to help you connect on a profound…
Summary of Psychology Today · 8 min read
Self-Growth
Feeling like you've lost touch with the things that once brought you joy? This article explores practical strategies to reconnect with your passions and inject new excitement into…
Summary of Psychology Today · 7 min read
Dating Trends
As the world opened up in August 2021, many singles chose to be more selective about who they integrated into their lives. This article examines the 'single-in-my-bubble' trend…
Summary of The Guardian · 14 min read
Marriage & Long-Term
In a world obsessed with fairytale romances, research suggests that striving for a 'perfect' marriage can be detrimental. This article explores the concept of the 'good enough'…
Summary of Psychology Today · 9 min read
Attachment Theory
As you reflect on your relationships this August, consider how attachment theory plays a pivotal role in navigating the inevitable challenges and fostering lasting resilience.
Summary of The Guardian · 8 min read
Red Flags & Boundaries
Communication is key in any relationship, but what happens when silence is used as a form of punishment? The silent treatment, or stonewalling, is a damaging communication pattern…
Summary of The Guardian · 13 min read
Self-Growth
Holding onto grudges can be a heavy burden. This article explores the transformative power of forgiveness, not as condoning bad behavior, but as a personal act of liberation from…
Summary of The Guardian · 13 min read
Single Life
In the summer of 2021, as some social circles shifted, the importance of strong platonic friendships for single women became even more apparent. This article delves into nurturing…
Summary of The Guardian · 10 min read
Breakups & Healing
The immediate aftermath of a breakup can feel overwhelming, a rollercoaster of emotions from sadness to anger. This article delves into practical strategies for managing these…
Summary of Psychology Today · 16 min read