131 published pieces. Curated items name the outlet they summarize. Original explainers live in guides and topics.
Showing pieces by Eleanor Vance.
Communication Skills
Mistakes are inevitable in any relationship. Learn how to offer and receive sincere apologies that mend fences and strengthen your bond, especially during the summer heat.
Summary of The Atlantic · 6 min read
Self-Growth
Are old wounds holding you back from fully embracing the present? This article explores the liberating power of forgiveness and letting go of past hurts. Discover how to lighten…
Summary of The New York Times · 9 min read
Attachment Theory
What does it truly mean to have a secure attachment style? This July, delve into the characteristics of secure attachment, why it's the gold standard for relationships, and how to…
Summary of Verywell Mind · 13 min read
Dating Apps & Technology
While dating apps are designed to find romantic partners, sometimes the best connections emerge unexpectedly. This article explores the phenomenon of forming meaningful…
Summary of Elle · 10 min read
Dating Trends
Ghosting, the act of ending a relationship by ceasing all communication without explanation, remained a prevalent dating trend in July 2021. This article explores the…
Summary of Psychology Today · 12 min read
Single Life
In July 2021, as social calendars fill up again, friendships become even more crucial. This piece dives into how singles can intentionally nurture and expand their platonic…
Summary of Psychology Today · 9 min read
Breakups & Healing
The act of writing can be a powerful therapeutic tool for processing complex emotions after a breakup. This piece explores how to leverage journaling for healing and…
Summary of Relate (UK) · 8 min read
Marriage & Long-Term
Successful marriages are built on effective teamwork and a clear understanding of shared responsibilities. This article examines how couples can collaborate, delegate, and support…
Summary of The Guardian · 7 min read
Single Life
Understanding your attachment style is fundamental to navigating relationships, and this is especially true when you're single. This article from The Attachment Project provides…
Summary of The Attachment Project · 13 min read
Self-Growth
After a period of isolation, re-entering the dating scene can feel overwhelming. This article explores strategies to rebuild your self-esteem and approach dating with renewed…
Summary of Psychology Today · 5 min read
Marriage & Long-Term
As relationships evolve, so do the ways we express and receive love. This article explores whether the classic love languages still hold true in long-term partnerships and how to…
Summary of Psychology Today · 10 min read
Dating Trends
During lockdowns, many individuals formed 'covid cohorts' or close-knit social bubbles for support and companionship. This article examines how these close connections have…
Summary of The Guardian · 8 min read
Self-Growth
Feeling a little stagnant after months of isolation? This article explores practical strategies to re-engage with your personal interests and reignite your inner fire.
Summary of Psychology Today · 5 min read
Red Flags & Boundaries
Are you finding your choices, friendships, or even your thoughts being subtly dictated by your partner? This article sheds light on the insidious nature of controlling behaviors…
Summary of The Atlantic · 8 min read
Success Stories
Mark and Emily faced common relationship challenges – communication breakdowns and differing expectations. Through implementing principles from the Gottman Institute, they…
Summary of The Gottman Institute · 12 min read
Modern Dating Culture
In May 2021, the definition of a 'dealbreaker' in dating is shifting. Explore what's truly important in a partner and how to set realistic expectations.
Summary of The Guardian · 7 min read
Marriage & Long-Term
The prolonged period of lockdown and societal change has undoubtedly impacted couples. This article explores how to identify and address new relationship dynamics and actively…
Summary of Psychology Today · 9 min read
Self-Growth
After a year of social distancing, re-engaging in conversations can feel daunting. This article explores strategies to rebuild your communication confidence and express your needs…
Summary of Psychology Today · 9 min read
Relationship Psychology
The pandemic has reshaped how we connect, and for many, it has tested the foundations of trust. This article explores how to rebuild and strengthen trust with your partner as we…
Summary of Psychology Today · 7 min read
Breakups & Healing
Even as the world slowly reopens, the emotional weight of a recent breakup can feel heavier. This article explores the often-unseen stages of grief following a relationship's end…
Summary of Psychology Today · 8 min read
Single Life
The dating landscape in early 2021 offered unique challenges and opportunities. This article explores how single women can leverage this period to focus on self-discovery and…
Summary of Psychology Today · 13 min read
Modern Dating Culture
Understanding your attachment style, whether secure, anxious, or avoidant, is crucial for building healthy, lasting relationships. This March 2021 piece from the Attachment…
Summary of The Attachment Project · 10 min read
Attachment Theory
The early stages of dating are often filled with excitement and uncertainty. But what happens as a relationship deepens? This article examines how attachment styles influence the…
Summary of The Gottman Institute · 7 min read
Breakups & Healing
The Gottman Institute has extensively researched successful relationships. This article translates their principles into actionable advice for navigating the emotional landscape…
Summary of The Gottman Institute · 8 min read