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Met my person at 38 after giving up on dating apps

Zara Ahmed · September 5, 2025

I deleted every dating app in January, joined a pottery class, and met the most incredible man at a friend's dinner party in March. We've been inseparable since. I know "stop looking and you'll find it" is annoying advice, but for me it was literally true. Sometimes you just need to live your life and trust the timing. To my 35+ crowd — your person is out there.

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  • Sophie Chen

    This comment section is giving me life. I love this community.

    • Aisha Patel

      Girl, RUN. I stayed in a similar situation for 2 years and it only got worse.

      • Emma Davis

        My non-negotiable is emotional intelligence. If he can't name his feelings, we're not compatible.

        • Rachel Kim

          I was in your exact shoes last year. Here's what I did...

          • Priya Sharma

            Girl, RUN. I stayed in a similar situation for 2 years and it only got worse.

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