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His ex keeps commenting on all his posts — am I overreacting?

Rachel Kim · January 8, 2026

My boyfriend's ex-girlfriend comments on literally every single one of his social media posts. Heart emojis, inside jokes, "miss you" type stuff. When I brought it up he said she's just friendly and I'm being insecure. But it's EVERY post. Am I being crazy here? He says they're just friends but the comments feel really inappropriate. What would you do?

Replies

Megan Torres
Your growth is inspiring. We love to see it! 🌱
Brianna Cole
Your ex sounds like my ex's long-lost twin. The audacity of these men.
Lily Martinez
Unpopular opinion but sometimes the ick IS your intuition telling you something. Don't ignore it completely.
Nicole Wright
Just went through this exact situation. It gets better, I promise.
Sophie Chen
This is such important advice. Bookmarking this.
Emma Davis
I was in your exact shoes last year. Here's what I did...
Priya Sharma
Honestly? I think you already know the answer. Trust your gut.
Rachel Kim
Your ex sounds like my ex's long-lost twin. The audacity of these men.
Jasmine Williams
Been married 12 years. The butterflies fade but they get replaced by something deeper and better.
Olivia Nguyen
Wait, are you dating my ex? 😂 But seriously, this is textbook avoidant behavior.

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