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He said he "needs space" after 3 months — is this a dealbreaker?

Nicole Wright · November 14, 2025

I've been seeing someone who seemed really into me, but suddenly pulled back and said he needs space. We were texting every day, going on dates twice a week, and then boom — nothing for 5 days. When I asked what was wrong he said he just "needs to figure things out." I've been here before and it didn't end well. Should I wait it out or cut my losses? I really like him but I don't want to be someone's maybe.

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  • Maya Johnson

    Just screenshot this entire thread for my notes app lol

    • Taylor Brooks

      Girl, RUN. I stayed in a similar situation for 2 years and it only got worse.

      • Aisha Patel

        THIS. This is why I love this community. Real talk from real women.

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