14 published pieces. Curated items name the outlet they summarize. Original explainers live in guides and topics.
Showing pieces by Mark Jenkins.
Modern Dating Culture
When a casual relationship isn't working out, how do you end it kindly and respectfully? This article contrasts the damaging 'slow fade' with direct, honest communication.
Summary of Lastfirstdate · 10 min read
Dating Apps & Technology
With an endless stream of potential matches at our fingertips, dating apps can lead to overwhelm and decision fatigue. This piece explores how to manage the constant choices and…
Summary of Verywell Mind · 9 min read
Attachment Theory
Do you find yourself pulling away from intimacy even when you desire it? This article delves into the challenges of avoidant attachment in dating and offers actionable advice for…
Summary of Verywell Mind · 9 min read
Modern Dating Culture
The art of disappearing from a romantic interest has evolved beyond just silence. We examine the subtler, equally frustrating tactics of the 'slow fade' and how to recognize its…
Summary of Psychology Today · 9 min read
Marriage & Long-Term
Beyond daily routines, shared hobbies offer a vital avenue for connection and fun in long-term relationships. Discover how engaging in activities together can deepen intimacy and…
Summary of Verywell Mind · 7 min read
Relationship Psychology
Gary Chapman's popular 'Five Love Languages' concept provides a framework for understanding how individuals give and receive love. This piece examines each language and its…
Summary of Healthline · 19 min read
Relationship Psychology
Beyond physical appearance, a complex interplay of psychological and biological factors influences who we are attracted to. This article explores the multifaceted science behind…
Summary of Healthline · 9 min read
Relationship Psychology
Laughter isn't just the best medicine; it's a vital ingredient for a resilient and happy relationship. This article explores how humor can help couples navigate challenges and…
Summary of The Atlantic · 9 min read
Breakups & Healing
Breakups can impact your social circle, creating awkwardness and potential rifts. This article offers strategies for managing friendships that were intertwined with your ex and…
Summary of Verywell Mind · 18 min read
Attachment Theory
Avoidant attachment can manifest in various subtle and not-so-subtle ways, impacting intimacy and connection. This article sheds light on the characteristics of avoidant partners…
Summary of The Attachment Project · 9 min read
Red Flags & Boundaries
Is your partner's 'care' starting to feel like surveillance? This article delves into the subtle and overt ways controlling behaviors manifest and why they are damaging.
Summary of Love Is Respect · 9 min read
Relationship Psychology
What makes individuals commit to a relationship? This February 2021 article dives into the psychological factors that underpin commitment and the journey from 'I' to 'we'.
Summary of Love Is Respect · 10 min read
Success Stories
Despite the challenges of early 2021, online dating platforms continued to be a source of connection. This article highlights a success story from Match.com, illustrating how…
Summary of Match.com studies · 13 min read
Dating Trends
January 2021 saw early rumblings of a societal reevaluation of work and life priorities, which began to influence dating choices. This article explores how people started…
Summary of Harvard Business Review · 13 min read